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The Beauty of Decision-Making with Uninformed Wisdom
Or, What Sociocracy Taught Me About Intuition, Fear and Collective Knowing. I was asked to write down my choice for the leader of a three-week class. I knew almost nothing about the people in the room. The decision was minor, temporary, and easily reversible. My nervous system reacted as though I was deciding someone's fate. For context, I am part of an intentional community, which is a planned community of people living together with common values and purpose. Our community
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From Chronic Illness to Continuous Healing
How Pushing Ourselves Leads to Burnout Bodies are amazingly resilient. Most injuries heal within a matter of weeks. If an injury continues to be in pain past its typical healing time, you might have mindbody pain. Maybe you have been struggling through school, or trying to work and raise kids in a nuclear family, or working and tending ailing parents or grandparents. Maybe you have been working a minimum wage job and just trying to pay the bills. One way or the other, you hav
karamstella
Nov 13, 202515 min read


Distress as a Doorway to Self-Love
I'm 51. I'm in the thick of perimenopause. I wake up often at 4:30 am or so. I have a bunch of parts that have FEELINGS about that. Frustrated at missing sleep. Worried how it will affect me. Worried about whether I should take medications or change something more drastic. Sometime bored. Sometimes lonely. Once this became a regular thing, I began to notice something compelling about that extra wake up. The awakening window (fun fact - officially called hypnagogia) is a time
karamstella
Oct 17, 20256 min read


The Quest for Inadequate Completion
I have been a poet and writer for a long time. As long as I have been writing, really. But, I have this experience you may be familiar...
karamstella
May 26, 20253 min read
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